The Two Sons Matthew 21: 28-30
Readings: Matt. 21: 23-32, James 2: 14-22
“But Dad,” whined the young man, “I don’t want to! What do we employ servants for?” he muttered to himself, “Watching the vineyard is not my job.” He hurried away to escape the guilt of his refusal.
Meanwhile, his father went in search of his younger boy. “Son we need some help in the vineyard. Will you do it? “OK… OK” he replied, “Don’t worry Dad. You leave it to me. No problem.”
“The best policy,” he mused, “is always to tell people what they want to hear. It gets them off your back. Anyway, I’ll go over later to keep Dad happy.”
Back in his room the elder boy was annoyed. “It’s just not fair!” he exclaimed. “Why should I? It’s not even my field. I wouldn’t get my kids working it”.
Self justification would not work. He hated himself for the way he had treated his father. He knew he had neither excuse nor reason to refuse. It was simply his pride. He hated being told what to do at the best of times and this was not one of them. “Only one thing for it”, he sighed. “I’ll have to go. There will be no peace till I do. And off he went.
Meanwhile, his younger brother was busy procrastinating – time was conveniently slipping by.. And by… And by… until it was too late.
Jesus concludes the story ( Matt 21: 28-32) by asking which of the two did what his father wanted. The point is as obvious today as it was to the religious leaders listening at the time: its not what we say, but what we do, that counts.
( this version of the story by Steve Chilcraft)
Jesus told this story because the chief priests and elders of the people were questioning his teaching. This parable was aimed at them. It’s all about obedience – the son who did what the father asked is commended – not the son who promised but did not deliver.
We see here:
The danger of religious formalism
Jesus said to the religious leaders, “The ’sinners’ are entering the Kingdom of God before you. Those people who collect taxes for the hated Romans (traitors to their own people), prostitutes and other immoral people – those whom you despise – these are the kind of people who are now entering the Kingdom.
These folk started life wrong. They went off the rails, they departed from God’s ways. They denied him by their lives and they said they had no intention of serving him. But now, when they hear the preaching of John the Baptist they are cut to the heart. They are repenting of their sins, they are confessing their faults and they are being baptized by John. They are entering into the Kingdom of God.
In the parable which Jesus told, the son who said he wouldn’t go and work in the vineyard but then changed his mind represents these ’sinners’ who are now entering the Kingdom. They have changed their minds. They have repented. And Jesus commends them for doing this.
“But you”, he says to the chief priests and elders, “you started out the right way. You set yourselves up as religious folk. You said you were going to serve God. You said his Law was your delight. Then John the Baptist came, preaching the coming of the Kingdom, and you rejected his message! Even when you saw the lives of these sinners being transformed you did not yourselves repent and believe. You are like the son who said he was going to work and then didn’t do it. All words and no action!”
The trouble is that religious people can so often see themselves as ‘righteous’. They do not think they need to repent. They think it’s enough to go through with some religious rituals, and to talk about obedience to God.
Ruth (not her real name) went out at an evangelistic rally. Now she thinks of herself as a Christian. Her Christian friends think so also because she knows how to say the right words. But her lifestyle is immoral. She knows how to ‘talk the talk’ but not how to ‘walk the walk’.
But God wants actions, not just words, from his people
Trust and obey, for there’s no other way,
To be happy in Jesus, than to trust and obey.
We must keep our word
I think people take promises lightly today.
“I’ll come round tomorrow”, they say. But they never turn up.
“I’ll do it next week”. But months later it’s still not done.
If you’ve ever been involved in selling and buying of houses you’ll know that some one can make a promise and then let you down at the last moment.
Now the follower of Christ should be a man or woman of their word. Such a way of thinking has a very old-fashioned feel about it, doesn’t it? Yet there was a time when people would say “My word is my bond” and mean it.
What is it the Psalmist says of the truly righteous person?
Who may ascend into the hill of the LORD?
Or who may stand in His holy place?
He who has clean hands and a pure heart,
Who has not lifted up his soul to an idol,
Nor sworn deceitfully.
He shall receive blessing from the LORD,
And righteousness from the God of his salvation. (Psalm 24: 3-5)
And:
He who despises a vile man but honours those who fear the LORD, who keeps his oath even when it hurts, who lends his money without usury and does not accept a bribe against the innocent. He who does these things will never be shaken. (Psalm 15: 4,5)
Words are no substitute for actions
James says:
What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to him, Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed, but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? (James 2: 14-16)
Obviously just saying, “Be fed!”, etc. will do no good. We have to do something.
What then about promises we make to God.
The writer of Ecclesiastes says: Do not be quick with your mouth, do not be hasty in your heart to utter anything before God. God is in heaven and you are on earth, so let your words be few. (Eccles 5: 2)
And:
When you make a vow to God, do not delay in fulfilling it. He has no pleasure in fools; fulfil your vow. It is better not to vow than to make a vow and not fulfil it. (Eccles 5: 4-5)
How true this is.
In the parable, the son who promised and did not perform is condemned. I have no doubt that some people often promise, when they have no intention of keeping the promise. I can think of some situations in Church where this happens:
Marriage vows
In the marriage service it says that “Marriage is not to be entered into lightly” – but often it is, without either the bride of groom thinking about the seriousness of the vows they make.
Promises made at baptism
In the baptism service parents promise to bring up their child in the Christian faith – but often we never see parents or child again in church.
Promises made at confirmation
What we are talking about here are the responsibilities of church membership.
Now I can respect the person who declines to become a church member as a matter of principle – because they are not sure that they can take on the commitment, or because they feel their faith is not strong. But what about the person who takes on membership but then hardly ever comes to church?
What does God think about these promises?
I know I have been preaching to the converted. But remember: God rewards obedience.
Words come cheap – promises, vows, professions of faith - they are all easy to make, whereas actions are costly. But it’s actions which count in the end.
Prayer
O Lord, give us grace to do the works of God and to believe in Jesus Christ your Son. Save us from being like those religious people who refused to believe in Jesus. Amen.



