Archive for March, 2009

Mothering Sunday

Mothering Sunday in United Kingdom, 22nd. March 2009

(Talk for Family Service in the Brecon Pesbyterian Church)

What do most people call this day? Mothers’ Day. But it’s not really Mothers’ Day, is it? Mothers’ Day is an American celebration which occurs on the second Sunday in May – it was started in 1914 by Anna Jarvis. What we have in Britain on this Sunday should really be called Mothering Sunday. This tradition goes back much further than Mothers’ Day. hundreds of years ago the fourth Sunday in Lent was called Refreshment Sunday. People used to fast for Lent, but half-way though they were allowed to have a little break. On this Sunday they could refresh themselves with a little bit of cake or something else they would not otherwise be allowed to have. (For the rest of Lent they would have no meat, no eggs, no rich foods at all – nothing but coarse bread and vegetables and pease pudding.)

Now it so happened that one of the readings for this Sunday in the Prayer Book referred to the Church as the Mother of us all.

“ But the Jerusalem that is above is free, and she is our mother.” (Galatians 4:26)

It became the custom on this Sunday for people to gather for worship in the “mother church” in their area – usually the nearest cathedral or large church. On this Sunday also, young apprentices and serving maids would come back home to visit their families. Often they were as young as ten or eleven and they had had to leave home to find work – they didn’t go to school. But they were allowed to visit Mum on Mothering Sunday. The girls would usually bring home with then a special cake, known as a Simnel cake, made with marzipan icing.

A Simnel Cake

The custom was called “going a-mothering” and the poet Robert Herrick wrote about it in 1648:

“I’ll to thee a Simnell bring, ‘gainst thou go’st a mothering. So that, when she blesseth thee, half that blessing thou’lt give to me.”

And so the tradition of Mothering Sunday grew up. And after the Americans invented Mothers’ Day it was decided to keep Mothering Sunday in this country as our equivalent to that.

 

Say “Thank you”

It’s a great Sunday, set aside to say “Thank you” to God for our mothers and for our fathers, and for all those who loved us and cared for us when we were young. Parents have a difficult task (although you younger ones might think it’s the children who have a hard time!) but parents had all the work of caring for us when we were babies as well as all the worry and care of bringing us through school years. And the worry and care doesn’t stop when we grow up and leave home. Mothers and fathers still care for us.

Yes, mothers deserve thanks for what they do, and so do fathers and grandparents, and step-parents and foster-parents and aunts and uncles. All who care for us when we are young. Today we give thanks for all these and we thank God for his love which inspires them.

 

 The dimensions of God’s love

We’ve just sung “How deep the Father’s love for us”. I wonder just how deep God’s love is. Is it possible to plumb the depths?

 

OBJECT (1) TAPE MEASURE

If you want to measure the depth, or the height, or the length, or breadth of something you can use a tape measure. But is there any tape that can measure the dimensions of God’s love? The Bible tells us that God’s love is higher than the the heavens (Psalm 108: 4).

So I don’t think we can measure it with a tape measure!

 

OBJECT (2) MEASURING CUP

Or, if you were making a cake, perhaps a simnel cake, you might measure out the ingredients using a measuring cup or a measuring jug. But the Bible says, “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not be in want … my cup runs over (Psalm 23)

So you can’t measure God’s love – it overflows the cup.

 

OBJECT (3) CLOCK

What about time then? How long does it last? I can measure the length of this service using the clock – don’t worry, we’re not going to go over the hour! Well, how long does God’s love last for?

“The steadfast love of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting”. (Psalm 103:17)

Wow – it goes on for ever! You can’t measure it. You can’t measure the dimensions of God’s love but you can wonder at them. And you can trust him As we sometimes sing:

So high you can’t get over it.

So low you can’t get under it,

So wide you can’t get round it.

Oh wonderful love!

 

Our God is so wonderful: we can trust him. We all need his help. Mothers need his help and children need his help. Young people and old all need his help. We all need God in our lives.

 ”For God so loved the world that he gave his only-begotten Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3: 16)

How can you measure a love like that? Paul prayed for the church in Ephesis that they would know how wide, how long, how high and how deep God’s love really is. “May you experience it, though it is so great you will never fully understand it”. (Ephesians 3:18-19)

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Do the little things

       

     

Sermon preached on March 1st. 2009

Introduction

Today is Saint David’s Day – a great day for all true Welsh men and women. But how many of those who celebrate their Welshness on this day know much about Saint David himself? Actually there is not a lot of historical information on him, but  many legendary stories. It’s hard to separate the fact from the fiction in the life of David.

Saint David,  or Dewi Sant as he is known in Welsh, was renowned as a preacher and teacher in West Wales during the C6th. He and his followers lived a very hard and ascetic life:

The Monastic Rule of David prescribed that monks had to pull the plough themselves without draught animals; to drink only water; to eat only bread with salt and herbs; and to spend the evenings in prayer, reading and writing. No personal possessions were allowed: to say “my book” was an offence. He lived a simple life and practiced asceticism, teaching his followers to refrain from eating meat or drinking beer.

 It is claimed that David lived for over 100 years, and he died on a Tuesday 1 March (now St David’s Day). It is generally accepted that this was around 590, making the actual year 589. The monastery is said to have been ‘filled with angels as Christ received his soul’. His last words to his followers were in a sermon on the previous Sunday. Rhygyfarch transcribes these as ‘Be joyful, and keep your faith and your creed. Do the little things that you have seen me do and heard about. I will walk the path that our fathers have trod before us.’ ‘Do the little things in life’ (‘Gwnewch y pethau bychain mewn bywyd’) is today a very well-known phrase in Welsh, and has proved an inspiration to many.

(From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)

 

Do the little things

I’m not now going to say anything more about Dewi Sant. Instead I would like us to concentrate on those famous last words

‘Gwnewch y pethau bychain’  —-  ‘Do the little things’

 This saying of Dewi expresses a point of view that has been shared by many other Christian saints and leaders. For example Mother Teresa:

“ Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.”
“I do not pray for success, I ask for faithfulness. “

And this is only reflecting the words of our Lord himself in the Parable of the Talents

‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’ (Matthew 25:21 )

And also in another parable, in Luke’s gospel:
Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.  (Luke 16: 10)

Any employer knows this is true. If an employee has been caught with his hand in the petty cash you are not likely to trust that person with the till. No, you will not trust a person who has been found unfaithful in small things. 

The small things are important and this is true in all areas of life. In the area of health for example. To clean your teeth is a small thing:  but if you neglect to do it you will pay later in a big way, when you lose your teeth. Bacteria and viruses are tiny – so microscopic that  we have only known about their existence since the invention of the microscope. But is only takes one germ to kill you – if it is allowed to multiply and take over.  In the same way it can often be the little bad habits which are the thin end of the wedge – leading eventually to an addiction.

 

The importance of small things

If we are followers of Jesus, then we will seek to be faithful in small things as well as large. For we will realise the importance of small things.

Jesus valued the small things. He talked about the mustard seed which grows into a mighty plant and shelters the birds. He talked about he yeast – it only takes a  little bit to spread through the whole lump of dough and leaven it. He referred to a lamp on a stand – it might only be one little flame but it lights up the whole house. In the same way a few grains of salt give flavour to food.

Jesus noticed the small things:  the flowers in the field. the single sparrow that falls to the ground.  And he noticed small people too. He welcomed the little one when they came to him. He placed his hand on them and blessed them. He told his disciples they had to become like these little children if they were going to see the Kingdom of God. He sided with the weak and the poor, the outcast and the leper. With people who were regarded as  being of small importance in society.

Oh yes, the small things are important. “You don’t have to be a large gathering to know my presence,” he said. “For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them”.  (Matthew 18:20)

At times huge crowds followed him but there were other times when he was left just with his few disciples. In the end he was alone on the cross.

This is a spiritual principle: the importance of small thing and small numbers of people. We see this throughout the whole Bible. Think of Elijah – on his own confronting the hundreds of prophets of Baal. Or Moses and Aaron standing before Pharaoh and his court . Or Gideon, with his pathetic group of 300 men defeating the tens of thousands of Midianites.

 

Small is beautiful

“Who has despised the day of small things?” wrote the prophet Zechariah.
 ( Zechariah 4:10)

And it is easy to despise or ignore the little things. When I lived in Prestatyn we went on a church nature  ramble over the sand dunes to the East of the town. It’s a pleasant place, looking out over Liverpool Bay and the Dee estuary. It is a nature reserve,  a place where little terns nest (one of the few in Britain). It’s a place where you could sometime view seals on the beach and also, on the sand dunes, there were a number of species of rare orchids. The lady who was guiding us took out  a pocket magnifying glass and showed us the tiny little flowers. They were as lovely as any cultivated orchid in someone’s conservatory but they were only a few milimetres in size. She said, “I don’t think they are any less beautiful just because they are so tiny that you can walk past them without noticing they are there.”

 

We depend on small things

Small things are just as important, and just a beautiful, as large. I suppose we can all get worked up about the possibility of the Blue Whale, or the Elephant, becoming extinct. But we don’t bother so much about some rare species of snail or bug! Now if the snail were a hundred feet long, that would be a different matter!
But the snail or bug has its part to play, just as the whale. And when you think of it, the mighty blue whale depends on tiny sea creatures called Krill, which make up the whole of its diet!

On the radio the other day on Gardener’s Question Time, Bob Flowerdew  was talking about earthworms. There is a small, insignificant creature, if there ever was one! But if there are no worms in a patch of land nothing will grow on it. The worms aerate the soil, they facilitate drainage, they fertilize it,  they even secrete plant hormones which encourage plant growth.

I also read the other day that if all the insect life on this planet died, human life would outlive them by only a few months!

 

Small deeds of service

So , you see, small is important. And for the follower of the Servant King no task is too small or menial. Everything can be done as service to Christ.

 

Teach me, my God and King,
in all things thee to see,
and what I do in anything
to do it as for thee.

A servant with this clause
makes drudgery divine:
who sweeps a room, as for thy laws,
makes that and the action fine.

(George Herbert)
And here’s another hymn which expresses this attitude:

Fill thou my life, O Lord my God,
in every part with praise,
that my whole being may proclaim
thy being and thy ways.

Praise in the common things of life,
its goings out and in;
praise in each duty and deed,
however small and mean.

Fill every part of me with praise;
let all my being speak
of thee and of thy love, O Lord,
poor though I be, and weak.

(Horatius Bonar)
So what does this mean in practice, in daily life? It means that if we do a job we aim to do it to the best of our abilities for the glory of  God.  Any job: it could be composing a great work of art, or it could be washing dishes. It might be a tremendous sporting feat, or it might be scrubbing the floor. It might be travelling to the other end of the earth as a missionary, or it might be going next door to check if the neighbour is alright.

The small things are just as important as the large ones. (Indeed, in a sense they are more important, because they are so easily overlooked or forgotten.)
And we all know how the neglect of a small thing can lead to a disaster:

For want of a nail the shoe was lost.
For want of a shoe the horse was lost.
For want of a horse the rider was lost.
For want of a rider the battle was lost.
For want of a battle the kingdom was lost.
And all for the want of a horseshoe nail.
(Anonymous)

There are many small deeds of service the Lord wants us to carry out and some of them are very small and very simple:
If anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones because he is my disciple, I tell you the truth, he will certainly not lose his reward.” ( Matthew 10:42)

And to quote Mother Teresa again:

“If you can’t feed 100 people, then feed one person.”

“I want you to be concerned about your next door neighbour. Do you know your next door neighbour?”

“In this life we cannot do great things. We can only do small things with great love.”

 

Meditation

Let us pause now for a time of quiet mediation:

·  think of the small things we may have left undone.

·  perhaps we intended to say something or to do some small kindness and we never got around to it. We resolve that we will, at the next opportunity.

·  think of the needs of people around us. Is there some small thing we can do to help them.

·  think of the work of Christ’s Church: this church, or the Church world-wide. Is there something small we can do to help God’s kingdom grow?

·  to come more regularly to worship on Sunday?

·  to get involved in spiritual activities of the church during the week?

·  to pray for the sick or to visit them?

·   to pray for the minister and elders?

·  to support mission in the Third World?

·  to give  little bit more to the Lord’s work, either to this church or to other charitable causes?
Conclusion

Some people are great Welsh patriots, making much of their county’s culture,  language and success (or otherwise) on the Rugby field. But, I wonder how many of these “patriots”  think about what has made Wales great in the past – its Christian heritage. The Welsh Bible of William Morgan, the hymns of Pantycelyn, the preaching of Howell Harris and Daniel Rowland, the Revival of 1904 and the great Christian foundation laid by Dewi Sant one and a half thousand years ago in our land.
‘Be joyful, and keep your faith and your creed. Do the little things that you have seen me do and heard about.”

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