
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. ( 1 Corinthians 13:13)
Introduction
When I was a child of about ten in Junior School we used to sing this hymn in assembly:
Gracious Spirit, Holy Ghost,
Taught by Thee we covet most
Of Thy gifts of Pentecost
Holy, heavenly Love.
Faith, that mountains could remove,
Tongues of earth or heaven above,
Knowledge—all things—empty prove,
Without heavenly Love.
Though I as a martyr bleed,
Give my goods the poor to feed,
All is vain—if Love I need;
Therefore, give us Love.
(Christopher Wordsworth.)
Every verse of that hymn ends with the word love and I can remember thinking, as a ten year old boy, that this was all very soppy and girly. After all, ten-year old boys don’t talk about love and emotions! But one day I suddenly realized; “It’s not love in that sense – romantic love – it’s love in the Christian sense. That’s alright then.” And so, at the age of ten, I realized that there is difference between romantic love and Christian love.
Indeed in 1 Corinthians 13, the Greek word Paul uses for love is Agapé, which is never used for romantic love or sexual love.
Agapé love
Part of the trouble is that we have only one word for love in English, and that can mean a variety of things. It can be anything from soppy sentimentality, to the yearning of a mother for her child, right through to raunchy sensuality. People use the word “love” when they really mean “sex”, as in the expression “to make love” which nowadays is a euphemism for sexual intercourse. On a completely different level you can say you love your country, or you love music or even that you love pizza! There are so many meanings to the one word “love”.
So let’s get it clear that we are only talking about Christian love today – Agapé.
This kind of love is called charity in the King James Bible, but in modern English the word “charity” usually means giving to good causes. So let’s stick with the word love – but remember, it’s God’s love we are talking about.
It has three directions:
· the love God has for us
· the love we have for him
· the love we have for one another, which is inspired by his love for us
We think of Christmas as a time of love, peace and goodwill towards all people. It’s meant to be a time of love within families, is is it not? But it isn’t always so. In fact, many people are miserable over the Christmas period.
Here is a version of 1 Corinthians 13 which gives a new twist to it:
1 Corinthians 13 – The Christmas Version
If I decorate my house perfectly with plaid bows, strands of twinkling lights and shiny balls, but do not show love to my family, I’m just another decorator.
If I slave away in the kitchen, baking dozens of Christmas puddings, preparing gourmet meals and arranging a beautifully adorned table at mealtime, but do not show love to my family, I’m just another cook.
If I work at the soup kitchen, carol in the nursing home and give all that I have to charity, but do not show love to my family, it profits me nothing.
If I trim the spruce with shimmering angels and crocheted snowflakes, attend a myriad of holiday parties and sing in the choir’s cantata, but do not focus on Christ, I have missed the point.
Love stops the cooking to hug the child. Love sets aside decorating to kiss the husband. Love is kind, though harried and tired. Love doesn’t envy another’s home that has coordinated Christmas china and table linens. Love doesn’t yell at the children to get out of the way, but is thankful they are there to be in the way. Love doesn’t give only to those who are able to give in return, but rejoices in giving to those who can’t.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.
Computer games will break, cashmere jumpers will wear out, golf clubs
will get lost. But the gift of love will endure.
Love incarnate
But why do we think of Christmas as the time for peace, love and goodwill? Is it not because it is the celebration of the Incarnation – the coming of God into our world. God is love – he has shown us this by coming into our world in the person of his Son, by living, suffering and by dying on the cross. Jesus, God’s Son made the ultimate sacrifice so that he could win us back to himself.
In his letter to the Philippians Paul marvels at the sacrifice Jesus made:
Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:
Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death— even death on a cross!
(Philippians 2:5-8)
This truth of God’s love shown to us in the coming of Christ is beautifully expressed in this poem by Christina Rossetti, which is sometimes sung as a Christmas carol:
Love came down at Christmas,
love all lovely, love divine;
love was born at Christmas:
star and angels gave the sign.
Worship we the Godhead,
love incarnate, love divine;
worship we our Jesus,
but wherewith the sacred sign?
Love shall be our token;
love be yours and love be mine,
Love to God and to all men,
love for plea and gift and sign.
Christina Rossetti (1830-1894)
“Love shall be our token – love to God and to all men” – and these are the two other directions of God’s love. The first is Gods love for us. But then there is our love for God (the second direction) and the third one is our love for others.
Our love
Just think about them for a moment, these directions of love are linked together. John in his First Epistle, tells us that God’s love is the inspiration for us to love others.
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.
( 1 John 4:7-12 )
And love for others is not a sentimental thing. It’s not primarily a matter of emotions. First and foremost it is a matter of will. It is choosing to do the right thing by other people – it is seeking their welfare and not just your own. Love has to be tough sometimes – every mother and father knows that – but it never ceases to be love.
Love shows itself in practical ways:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. ( 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 )
Humanly impossible
To even begin to demonstrate this we need the hand of God upon our lives. We need his grace and the indwelling of his Spirit. Of our own strength we don’t have this ability. We can’t love God as he deserves to be loved – that is, with all our heart and strength and mind. Nor do be have the ability to love our neighbour as he or she deserves to be loved – that is, as we love ourselves.
We just don’t have it in us – it is impossible, humanly speaking, to love in this way. Thank God that he is not limited to what is humanly possible!
The world says: “Surely self interest comes first – charity begins at home. When you have served your own interests you might then have a little love left over for others.” Thank God that he is not limited to what the world thinks possible!
You see, Christ turns it all upside-down. He says: “Put God first, then other people, and only then consider yourself.” It’s only by grace that anyone is able to love in this way but Christians do, to a greater or lesser degree. We all fail in Christian love on so many occasions – but God is merciful and forgives us when we are sorry.
With all our imperfections we can still experience something of the faith, hope and love of Christ this Advent season.
Conclusion
There’s a computer virus going round – slightly differentfrom the usual kind:-
WARNING……WARNING: ADVENT VIRUS
Be on the alert for symptoms of inner Hope, Peace, Joy and Love. The hearts of a great many have already been exposed to this virus and it is possible that people everywhere could come down with it in epidemic proportions. This could pose a serious threat to what has, up to now, been a fairly stable condition of conflict in the world.
Some signs and symptoms of The Advent Virus:
· A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than on fears based on past experiences.
· An unmistakable ability to enjoy each moment.
· A loss of interest in judging other people.
· A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others.
· A loss of interest in conflict.
· A loss of the ability to worry. (This is a very serious symptom.)
· Frequent, overwhelming episodes of appreciation.
· Contented feelings of connectedness with others and nature.
· Frequent attacks of smiling.
· An increasing tendency to let things happen rather than make them happen.
· An increased susceptibility to the love extended by others as well as the uncontrollable urge to extend it.
Please send this warning out to all your friends. This virus can and has affected many systems. Some systems have been completely cleaned out because of it.
(Anonymous)
I hope you all get the Advent Virus of Hope, Peace, Joy and Love!
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